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Last week marked the opening of the men’s homeless shelter at Rodef Sholom. For the fourth year we will be providing a warm meal and safe and warm place for 40 men to sleep on Wednesday nights. Last Wednesday we had over 12 adults and 20 Rodef Sholom religious school and midrasha students serving food and entertaining our guests. Jamie Weinstein is organizing this year’s volunteers and if you are interested in getting involved, contact her at dinyolla@gmail.com.

Furthermore, in appreciation for the outstanding dedication of our clergy, Rabbi Stacy Friedman will be taking a portion of her much-deserved sabbatical beginning in early December. By mutual agreement it was decided that dividing up a 6 month sabbatical this year into 3 shorter segments would be in the best interests of the congregation. From December to mid-January, Rabbi Friedman will be taking time for renewal and rejuvenation from her position as our Senior Rabbi. In the spring of 2013 she will complete her sabbatical time. We are thankful for the leadership, spiritual guidance, and vision Rabbi Friedman brings to Rodef Sholom and are happy we can provide this opportunity to her for spiritual renewal, regeneration and recreation.

I hope you will join me in counting the many blessings we have and give thanks for the loving and caring community we have here at Rodef Sholom.

L’shalom,

Marc Press, President Board of Directors


On Erev Rosh Hashanah, I shared my vision for working with you to raise our “Sacred Capital,” a reference from Rabbi Lawrence Hoffman’s book ReThinking Synagogues. I spoke about what you could do to help us raise Sacred Capital at Rodef Sholom by showing up with your heart, spirit, mind and soul to deepen the meaning and purpose of all that we do, and to support one another throughout the years. Since that time, and with the help of Rabbi Hoffman’s most recent book, Sacred Strategies: Transforming Synagogues from Functional to Visionary, the board of directors, clergy, and many congregants have begun a process to ensure that all of the great individual initiatives at Rodef Sholom—Mitzvah Kitchen, Nichum (comfort through connection, e.g., visiting the sick, delivering meals and comforting mourners) Moreh Derech (Jewish guides who welcome and engage new members), Kol Hamishpacha (whole family education) Mitzvah Day, Tzedek Circles (social action projects created to help people do what they believe in—together), and more—work together to create a visionary whole that is—as a whole—more relevant to you and to our community. This will undoubtedly be a long-term process, but a process with enormous dividends for all of us.

Although the board feels an inspired imperative to focus on the long term health of the congregation, we also have a responsibility to ensure that our current operations operate in an efficient and financially sustainable manner. Like so many in our community, our congregation has been hard hit by the economic downturn. After two years of revenue shortfalls, achieving a balanced budget has required painful cuts to programs and positions held dear. Nonetheless, in accordance with the bylaws and our consciences, we adopted what we believed would be a balanced budget, including a repayment to the reserves from which we borrowed to meet prior shortfalls. Yet in spite of our most diligent planning and difficult spending cuts, we are once again facing a revenue shortfall.

This year, 62% of our members asked for a scholarship with their annual membership. As you know, Rodef Sholom does not deny membership or religious school to anyone for an inability to make payment in full. This policy, forged with great thought and care by those who founded this sacred home, reflects our deep concern for the spiritual health of all who cross our threshold and our commitment to ensuring that our spiritual home is a fully welcoming one.

Yet this holy commitment has financial implications, particularly during a time like this when so many are in need for so many years in a row. It is with gratitude that I share how generously many of you have responded to help us address this shortfall. Through the Tradition of Giving and other gifts, you have kept on track the programs and people we all cherish. Thank you. I wish I could report that our work in this regard was done, but it is not. And we will continue to reach out to all of you to ask for your help.

Next month, the Voice will include an article from our treasurer, Jay Bellin, about the status of our budget discussions. Following that, our finance committee and board will be finalizing and approving next year’s budget. Many very difficult decisions will have to be made. 

Therefore, I have two urgent requests for you. First, please contact me and share with me your ideas for how to preserve what we have, grow to new heights and care for all those who need us. Second, when your membership renewal arrives in May, please consider thoughtfully whether you still need to receive every dollar of scholarship aid you have received in the past. If you do, we will be there for you. If you can do more, I assure you every dollar pledged makes an important difference.

Finally, on February 1, many of you were present at a funeral for a beloved member of our community, a young man who died suddenly, leaving behind a wife and young child. He grew up in our congregation and he taught at Rodef Sholom. Led by our clergy, more than 800 people gathered to support and carry his family through this time of indescribable grief.   It was a day where nothing short of Sacred Community would do and a day in which the Sacred Capital of our congregational home was abundant.   We need one another. And I am so very grateful to be entrusted with the job of ensuring we will be here for one another in strength, spirit and love now and for generations to come. 

L'shalom, 

Marc Press


I treasure Congregation Rodef Sholom’s commitment to the local and world community. As an atheist Jew, I gain tremendous spiritual fulfillment participating in the Jewish tradition of Tikkun Olam. I have had the pleasure of traveling to New Orleans with Rodef Sholom teens, becoming an integral part of reconstructing homes and making a difference in the lives of complete strangers. I’ve raised funds for the women’s clinic in Darfur, participated in multiple Mitzvah Days, am an active member of the Marin Organizing Committee (MOC), and the newly organized Tzedek Circles. Rodef Sholom provides myriad opportunities at any given time. Each time I “give”, the rewards never cease to amaze me. Aside from the great feeling of helping those in need, I have made friends, paved the way for others, and learned so much.

Our membership commitment contributes to all of these areas and so much more: our subsidized summer camp program (SEEDS) for our young people, comfort for the sick and disabled, and of course, religious and spiritual learning for thousands of our community members. These programs are only possible if sustaining membership levels are received each year.

The economy has had a tremendous impact on many of our congregational families, yet the synagogue continues to support every family, no matter their ability to pay. My wife, Amy & I, have had the firsthand experience of being welcomed into this community even when we could barely pay dues.

After a 12-year career, my employer was acquired by an out-of-state corporation. Not wanting to leave our community, I found myself unemployed on the eve of September 11, 2001.   What would have been a relatively short disruption in our earnings turned into a prolonged and painful experience.   Our family found great comfort in Rodef Sholom and has never felt the least bit frowned upon for not being able to pay the full sustaining membership.   We have since been very fortunate and rebuilt our economic security.   We are now thrilled to be able to “pay it forward” by increasing our commitment to help cover those who are not currently able to pay sustaining level.

Our congregation is approaching a crossroads.  We are seeing a shift in membership giving and that has challenged us to remain the community we want to be.  We all make tough decisions of where to donate our money; I ask each family that is financially able to think of their fellow congregant and consider sponsoring a second membership to cover those less fortunate, to join the Keter Circle (a total combination of $10,000 or more in annual gifts) or to provide a financial endowment to support one of these programs in perpetuity.  You can even do this through the Annual Tradition of Giving campaign that began last month.

In the meantime, as Treasurer, I will work closely with our Board, Executive Team and clergy to ensure we appropriate funds in a wise and purposeful manner, while continuing to keep a focus on the spirit of Tikkun Olam.

To find out how you can contribute, please contact Jane Friedman, development director, at 479.3441.

Thank you.


As my family and I prepare for the High Holy Days, it is a time for reflection, a time to consider the past year, and a time to consider the year that lies ahead.  Every year, Rabbi Lezak asks the men who assemble for the annual Men's Mikvah (September 5th at 6 am in the sanctuary this year) "what do you want to leave behind, and what do you want to bring with you?"   The period between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur is a unique time where our tradition gives us the opportunity to atone for our wrongdoings, right the wrongs we may have cast upon one another, and to tell our loved ones just how much we love them.

It is in this same context that our Board of Directors takes time to examine what we can do better as a Board in the governance and leadership of Congregation Rodef Sholom.  We look at how the previous year ended, what we want to leave behind, and what we want to carry forward. We look at what we can do to improve the long term health, prosperity, and sacred capital of our holy community.  The board is committed to finding more ways to make Congregation Rodef Sholom a kehillah kedosha, a sacred community, rooted in tefillah, Torah, and tikkun olam for our congregants and community.

Our monthly board meetings are always open to all congregants. We welcome your input and participation. Come see what's new at Rodef Sholom and what you can do to get more involved in our temple community--we would like to hear your input and feedback.

As the High Holy Days approach, on behalf of the entire Board of Directors and from my family to yours, we wish you a year of peace, a year of health, a year of happiness, and a year of prosperity.

L’shana tova,

Marc Press


As my family and I traveled for two weeks through Israel with Rabbi Lezak, Rabbi Kushner and 24 other congregants on the congregational trip this summer, I was struck by how dedicated the Israeli people were to preserving their homeland in the face of such adversity.  While we didn't really see anything new, the simple act of planting a new kiwi tree in an orchard 50 yards from the Lebanon border on Kibbutz Malkiyah (in plain sight of the Hezbollah) was an indication of their hope and determination for a peaceful future.  We saw these acts of hope and determination repeatedly as we traveled through the Golan, Jerusalem, and Tel Aviv, whether it was on a Kibbutz in the Golan or a group of reform Jews on the boardwalk celebrating Shabbat in Tel Aviv.

What really struck me during our trip was the lesson Israelis can teach us all. It takes hard work, dedication, determination, and commitment to make things happen.  We are fortunate at Rodef Sholom to have many dedicated staff and volunteers, from the Board, to the Mitzvah Kitchen, to Nichum, to Moreh Derech, to our amazing staff, and on and on.   They all work to make our synagogue and our community a much better place.   But, we're always looking for more help and more involvement from our congregational family.  There's nothing to wait for, if you haven't been involved, now's the time to help strengthen our congregation.   Call the office to see how you can help.

It is hard to believe that summer is winding down and the High Holy Days are quickly approaching.   It is an honor to be the new President of Congregation Rodef Sholom and I look forward to working with our dedicated and talented Board of Directors.  It is with great respect and appreciation that I take the gavel from Past President Jan Luxenberg, who led us for two years.   Please join me in welcoming our newest member to the Board, Jay Bellin.   Many of you know Jay and his wife Amy who have been members and volunteers at Rodef Sholom since 2003.  Jay brings a wealth of experience to our Board as a successful businessman and volunteer.

I look forward to seeing you around the synagogue.   Feel free to write to me at the synagogue if you have any questions or want to get more involved with our synagogue family.

B'shalom,

Marc Press
President, Board of Directors


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