A number of years ago, I planned to go on a trip to Portugal. I took some travel books out of the library and began researching. I found the most colorful cities and exquisite seaside fishing towns to explore. I learned about the local food (a must) and the best time of the year to go, found museums and hikes to go on in the countryside. I even began eating sardines in anticipation. But . . . the trip never happened. I didn’t go to Portugal that year, and still haven’t gone these many years later.
But for me, that trip was the best trip I didn’t take; I had so much fun planning the trip, dreaming about it, learning about this beautiful land and imagining myself there. I almost feel as if I’ve traveled there, met the people, walked the streets and eaten the food even though I never have.
Recently, while listening to the radio, I came to better understand why planning, yet never going, on my trip was so rewarding and enjoyable. The man who’d just performed a study explained that those who take vacations are generally happier than people who don’t. We all know that!! But, what was important, the study’s author, mentioned, is that it isn’t necessarily the being on vacation that was most influential to our happiness. The very act of planning a vacation has a major impact of our happiness as well, he concluded. And sometimes, even more so. Planning a vacation, reading books and looking on line, including friends or family in the conversations, these all make us happy, help us connect with other people and new places, and help us to dream and to hope.
This is the season of dreaming and of hope.
In the Jewish calendar, the 49 days between Passover and Shavuot, is the period we call Counting the Omer. During these days we count, we actually count each of the days, day 1, day 2, day 3, day 4, and so on, until we reach the 49th day when we arrive at Shavuot.
What does this have to do with Portugal, you ask. Shavuot is the destination. The goal. It was the day of the harvest for the ancient Israelites; the day they would learn if they’d have enough to eat throughout the dry, hot summer. It was also the day we the receiving of Torah is commemorated. But the journey toward Shavuot, these 49 days, these 7 weeks of 7 days, these are the real days of joy for us. This time of counting gives us a chance to dream, to hope, to imagine, and to connect.
The Psalmist teaches; teach us to number my days that I may grow wise of heart. Yes, vacations, holidays, birthdays, celebrations, all are wonderful. I will be happy when, I will have time, when I . . . we sometimes say. But this holy time of counting the Omer reminds us that happiness, hope, and joy all start today, even in one moment of the day.
For instructions and ideas on how to count the Omer, please go to www.myjewishlearning.com and click on Counting the Omer.