The REAL Mental Health Initiative is made possible by a grant from the Laszlo N. Tauber Family Foundation.
Maintaining Well-Being
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Maintaining Well-Being, Connection, and Joy
REAL Parent Support
First Tuesday of the month (ongoing), 7-9pm - Virtual on Zoom
REAL Parent Support is a monthly group for parents of adult children who struggle. Join us to connect, support each other and share strategies for self-care. Email mhi@rodefsholom.org to receive the zoom link.
REAL Support for Adult Children of Mentally Ill Parents
Monthly support group
Fourth Tuesdays, 7-9pm
In person at Rodef Sholom
Adults who were raised by a mentally ill parent may experience a great many stresses, including confusion, anxiety, relationship challenges, and a sense of loss that can persist long into adulthood. REAL Support for Adult Children of Mentally Ill Parents provides a safe space for adults who were raised by a mentally ill parent to come together and support each other. The group is facilitated by congregants Ralph Daniel and Toni Golbus, and will focus on:
- Sharing experiences growing up with a mentally ill parent
- Discussing and sharing coping skills with others who grew up with a similar family life
- Learning from others’ positive emotional awakenings, awareness, and skills in negotiating current family and social relations
RSVP to JoAnne Forman, REAL Mental Health Initiative Program Coordinator at joanne@rodefsholom.org or 415/479.3441.
REAL Support for Parents of Gender Expansive Kids
2nd and 4th Wednesdays of the month, 7-8:30pm* In Person at the Marin JCC
RSVP to mhi@rodefsholom.org
2022 Schedule:
Wednesday, September 28, October 12 , October 26, November 9, November 30, December 14
*Some schedule variances will occur due to conflicting holidays.
REAL Support: Living with our Mental Health Challenges
On Hold till further notice!
This peer-facilitated weekly support group to connect with each other as we live with our own mental health issues on the journey of recovery. Join us to share our struggles and triumphs. You are not alone. Together, we will build a safe place to speak about our experiences and to share from our hearts. For more information- email mhi@rodefsholom.org
REAL Support for Grief and Loss- ongoing
This group will provide a safe space to support each other through this difficult process. This group is for those who have lost a partner/spouse and are in the early stages of grief. This peer-led group will meet weekly, outdoors and in person. Day and time to be determined by participants. To find out more contact congregant Patti Blumin at pattiblu@aol.com
Weekly Programs at Rodef Sholom
Morning Mindfulness with Rabbi Stacy Friedman
Tuesdays at 8:30am
ZOOM.
To participate by phone, dial 1-669-900-6833 and enter meeting ID 860 4117 4479 at the prompt.
Passcode: 434982.
Start your week with a quiet moment.
Morning Minyan
Wednesdays at 9am
ZOOM.
To participate by phone, dial 1-669-900-6833 and enter meeting ID 849 6999 3845 at the prompt.
Passcode: 091329.
A chance to share moments of gratitude, healing prayers and navigate grief through saying kaddish together.
Morning Mindfulness with Sylvia Boorstein and Clergy
Thursdays at 8:30am
ZOOM.
To participate by phone, dial 1-669-900-6833 and enter meeting ID 843 2180 0607 at the prompt.
Passcode 259297.
A guided meditation from a Jewish perspective.
Strings of Holiness with Sharon Lebell Playing Hammered Dulcimer
Fridays at 8:30am
Join us on Facebook.
A half hour of music and meditation.
Ongoing Community Events
Interactive Parenting Classes and Online Workshops
Get expert guidance concerning everything from behavior and temperament, to discipline and limit-setting, to separation and divorce, while connecting with other parents. Presented by the Center for Children and Youth (a Division of Jewish Family and Children’s Services). Click here to find classes.
Isolation and Finding Connection
Second and fourth Tuesdays, 2:00–3:30pm
Hosted by Buckelew Programs-Sonoma
This is an online education and support group about isolation, and connection. This series aims at providing tools and coping skills to navigate feelings of isolation. Email Michaele@buckelew.org to receive the zoom link.
SOS Allies for Hope. Survivors of Suicide Bereavement Support Group
Second and fourth Wednesday monthly at 7:00 pm
Contact 415-492-0614 to get a Zoom link or email SOSinfo@Buckelew.org .
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Striving to End the Stigma of Mental Illness in Our Jewish Community
The Mental Health Initiative has influenced the beginning of many changes in our congregation over the past year. People are coming forward and participating in activities, sharing their personal experiences, and meeting to address and improve our caring community. To assist us with this work, we have hired a Mental Health Initiative Program Coordinator, JoAnne Forman, to work with the clergy, staff and congregation to collaborate on ways to end the stigma and shame around the issue of mental illness.
Important Reading/Resources
- REAL White Paper - A Practical Guide to Creating Open and Authentic Communities
- Read Rabbi Stacy's 2014/5775 Kol Nidre sermon on Mental Illness
- Read Rabbi Stacy Friedman's Nov-Dec Voice article, "Care for Those in Need"
- Meet JoAnne Forman, our MHI Program Coordinator
Why Stigma Reduction Matters to All of Us
The mission of our REAL Mental Health Initiative is: Striving to end the stigma and isolation of mental illness in our Jewish community. Over the last year, I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about what stigma means and why it’s so important that we identify and work to end it.
Approximately 1 in 5 people experiences a mental illness in a given year. Stop and think about what that means: How many people are in your family, or your group of friends? Chances are you, or someone you care about, has faced a mental health challenge this year. In our congregation of nearly 2,000 adults, statistically almost 400 of our fellow community members are likely affected by a mental health issue.
What we know from research is that with treatment and support, 70-90% of people with mental health challenges report an improved quality of life. But stigma makes it difficult for people to reach out for that support; leading to an increased chance of school dropout, difficulty finding or keeping employment, or feelings of isolation and reluctance to engage fully with our religious and spiritual community.
When Rabbi Stacy Friedman gave her 2014 Kol Nidre sermon about mental health, she made a promise that Rodef Sholom would “work to create a safer place for more people to come out from behind the shadows and find the support and care they need to go on with their lives.” Rabbi Friedman also forged the way for Rodef Sholom to start having open and honest conversations about mental health and mental illness. These are the conversations that break down barriers, help family and friends learn how to support each other, and encourage community members to reach out to others.
Stigma reduction happens when we all come together to fight against it - whether we suffer from mental illness, love someone who does, or simply care about being an ally to the cause. By uniting together to reduce the stigma of mental illness we are creating change - strengthening our community, changing the system, and helping to make Rodef Sholom a safe place where everyone - no matter what - feels welcome and comfortable.
To get involved in the REAL Mental Health Initiative or for more information, please contact me at joanne@rodefsholom.org or 415.479.3441
JoAnne Forman
REAL Mental Health Initiative Program Coordinator
Favorite Links
- The COVID Coach app was created for everyone, including Veterans and Servicemembers, to support self-care and overall mental health during the coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic.
- You’re not lazy - self-isolation is utterly exhausting. One writer's perspective on why self-isolation based on societal demand makes all the difference between thriving and surviving.
- 100 Art Therapy exercises you can do from home. A collection of projects to help manage emotions, improve relaxation, boost happiness, explore gratitude and encourage self-reflection.
- 100 day project - Isolation journal. A daily creativity project to help make sense of challenging times.
- Researchers weigh in on what rituals mean to us and how to cope when we can't gather for graduations, weddings, and funerals.
For Parents
- Rainbows in Windows is a children's book about sheltering in place and the feelings that come along with that, and has an art activity that kids and families can do, it's been helpful for some of my families with younger ones.
- Right now, I am fine - This book explains what you can do to keep your mind and body calm now and during any hard time.
Community Resources
- Emergency Numbers and Resources
- If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, call 988
- Marin County Behavioral Health and Recovery Services offers prevention and early intervention, suicide prevention and crisis services to all residents of Marin County.
- The Marin County Crisis Stabilization Unit can be reached at (415) 473-6666.
- Marin County's Mental Health and Substance Use Access and Assessment can be reached at (888) 818-1115.
Proven Practices to Support Your Overall Health and Well-Being
- Maintain a daily schedule and routine.
- Try your best to eat healthy.
- Limit your consumption of alcohol and caffeine.
- Make sure you are getting enough sleep.
- While staying up to date on the news is important, give yourself a break from the constant flow of information.
- Take time every day to turn the tv off and put your phone down.
- If you can, take a walk or give yourself a few minutes to sit in your yard or patio.
Past Speakers and Events
Tuesday, January 19
REAL Discussion with Ronit Matabuena-Lev, MA
Tuesday, February 2
7pm Chaos2… Raising Sexually Healthy Teens in an Unhealthy Time with Ronit Matabuena-Lev, MA
Tuesday, February 23
7pm Self-Care and Taking in the Good to Combat Stressors during Covid-19/Remote Learning with Gina M. Biegel, LMFT